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Lost In My Mind

  • Jul. 11th, 2009 at 7:19 PM




Lost in my mind is where I will remain now

The illusion of fantasy keeps me stable

Those that lash out have no place there

Where I am alone swaying the breeze

A breeze that has no source but tires to push me over the edge

I am alone trying to find a way to stay strong

Against a turn of events that had been made

Not by my choosing but by those who had no clue

How they have destroyed me deep inside

Where I reside in my mind a lost cause

To the realities I cannot confront

And those who turn from me in cold relief

Because I am disappointment to all those around

Who had high hopes that I would succeed

I am one of the forgotten souls whose purpose has been halted

And now I wait alone lost in my mind

Perhaps never to return to the realties

That causes the tears that lead to the breakdown

Which has made me lost, so lost, deep within my mind




I Am a Scholar, So I can Write Romance (And Not Be Ridiculed)

USA Today has a very positive article on the front page of their Life section about how hip it is to write and read romance. Romances empower women! Hello, it took you this long to figure it out?


Some familiar faces are mentioned in the article such as historical romance authors, Eloisa James and Julia Quinn. And don’t forget our favorite bitches, Candy and Sarah. Color me shocked that Candy and Sarah get 3 to 6 million hits a month on their website. *bowing down*

As I read the article, certain things jumped out at me. I guess you can call it nitpicking but I find it interesting how much of the article mentions such words like:

-Ivy League
-Harvard Grad
-Tenured Professor
-Harvard, Oxford and a Yale PhD
-Highbrow
-Doctor
-Lawyer


The tone of the article stresses the importance of Eloisa and Julia’s higher education, as if the reporter of the article wanted to make sure that the public should realize that writing a romance and reading it is perfectly okay because these authors are not your every day run of the mill women. They have Ph.D’s and Masters, so you can’t bash their writing! Eloisa’s father is a famed literary poet and author and Julia was once studying to be a doctor. The article also mentions how Candy is a law student and Sara is married to a pretty smart guy because he was Valedictorian.

Again, why is it so important to mention the amount of education one has, the advanced degrees, plans to become a lawyer, a doctor and so forth? Why stress such credentials when it has nothing to with their writing? What does it matter if someone has tenure or every degree possible or if another works at a fast food restaurant and never graduated from college? It is the quality of the work that matters, not necessarily the person behind the pen.

Even Janet W who commented on the article over at Smart Bitches made a great point that had me agreeing:

“Oh, she went to Harvard, oh, she’s a professor, oh, he’s a professor, oh, The New Yorker liked Nora”—these books, writers, themes and genres were great reading before the USA Today Seal of Approval and they’ll be great after the bandwagon has moved on. But I see this a copycat journalism and an attempt to “explain” why romance sales are soaring. We were here reading before this pursuit of the professorial seal of approval ... that’s how I see it ... it just rubs me the wrong way. What did Georgette Heyer do? Or Jane Austen? What does it matter: they were FABULOUS writers and that’s what should matter.”

These are all great accomplishments and I applaud every single one of these ladies for them. Anyone who can further their education; you deserve the utmost respect and admiration. I have a sister who is in the process of getting her Masters in social work. The hours of study and work she puts in for this higher degree amazes me. Alas, I am just a lowly college graduate with a Bachelor of Arts in Communications. But ask either one of us the amount of books have read this past year and little sis will point to me and say I have read much, much more than she ever has.

The “high brow” New Yorker has also highlighted the great Nora Roberts and her accomplishments in writing, which Jessica at Racy Romance Reviews has a great post about. I also recommend you check out Monkey Bear Reviews who also posts about this and stresses the point that:

“Roberts is described as a “self-taught” writer. What, exactly, does this mean? That she has no university degree? Aren’t other writers “self-taught”, and if not, where do I sign up for a course to qualify as a professional writer?”

And did you know, and I thank Sarah at Monkey Bear Reviews for this fact, that even though Nora has spent over 700 weeks on the NY Times Bestseller list, they have only reviewed her once. Can we say WTH?

Jessica talks about the constant criticism that the Romance genre is constantly under even though it is a $1.4 billion business! Let’s say that again- $1.4 billion in sales! That is near the same amount the government gave to some of the banks to bail them out. Is it shocking to say that the romance industry is doing better than most financial institutions?

Historical Romance author Meredith Duran commented on the Racy Romance Reviews post and says everything so perfectly. Unlike me, Meredith has a wonderful way with words:

“.. my second observation directly concerns the apparent conundrum of a lengthy profile on a romance novelist in a magazine that doesn’t review the genre. I think the reason is loosely connected to another phenomenon, in evidence today in the USA Today article that’s making the rounds, as well as in all the other articles about romance which emphasize the academic credentials and/or intelligence of the romance genre’s novelists. This gels with my observation that many of the articles I read about romance novelists have a certain gawking tone to them, as though the fact that Julia Quinn dropped out of Yale Med School –or that Eloisa James is a professor at NYU — is, inherently, surprising. (They never mention Madeline Hunter’s creds – I’m waiting for an article about that.) Can you imagine a similar tone of surprise marking an article about a mystery novelist? I really can’t.”

Perhaps I am making too much of a big deal about this but it irks me to no end to constantly have to defend and give countless reasons why the authors who write romance novels and the public who reads them are in it for more than just the sex and getting their rocks off.

If I were just in it for getting myself off or needing to relieve some stress, I can always pick up the latest Penthouse Forum Letters or watch some Cinemax After Dark movies.

Reading romance is something all together different. It is not always about the sex.

Eloisa has said it best in regards to what a romance novel is all about: “a man and woman in a thoughtful, respectful, sensual relationship ... that will end happily."

A Thought

  • Jul. 6th, 2009 at 11:29 PM

"Ah, "All things come to those who wait," (I say these words to make me glad), But something answers, soft and sad, "They come, but often come too late"- Anonymous

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KB's Personal Favorite Books For the First Half of 2009

The first half of 2009 has been an amazing six months of reading. Since January I have read a total of 156 books and out of these 156 I have read:

16 A books
24 B+ books
65 B to B- books
22 C+ to C books
29 D and lower books
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The average book I have read in the past 6 months has been a "B" graded book. Not too bad! If I keep reading around twenty books a month, by the end of 2009 I will have read close to 300 books.
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The list of 28 books below are in the running for my final top 20 for the year. They are in alphabetical order by title and the grades I have given to each.

1. Angel’s Blood by Nalini Singh- B+
2. As Shadows Fade by Colleen Gleason- B+
3. Blue Diablo by Ann Aguirre- A-
4. Bound by Your Touch by Meredith Duran- A-
5. Branded by Fire by Nalini Singh- B+
6. Breaking the Silence by Katie Allen- A-
7. Butterfly Tattoo by Deidre Knight- A-
8. Demon Forged by Meljean Brook - A
9. Don’t Let It Be True by Jo Barrett- B+
10. Don’t Tempt Me by Loretta Chase- A-
11. Eve of Darkness by S.J. Day- A-
12. Fast and Hard by Erin McCarthy- B+
13. Forest of Hands and Teeth by Carrie Ryan- B+
14. Fragile Eternity by Melissa Marr- A-
15. Ghostland by Jory Strong- B
16. Goddess of the Hunt by Tessa Dare- A-
17. Kiss of the Demon King by Kresley Cole- A-
18. Mark of the Demon by Diana Rowland- B+
19. Practice Makes Perfect by Julie James- A
20. Ransom My Heart by Meg Cabot- A-
21. Renegade by Sarah Parr- A-
22. Scandal by Carolyn Jewel- A
23. Shades of Dark by Linnea Sinclair- B+
24. So Enchanting by Connie Brockway- B+
25. Tangled Up in Love by Heidi Betts- B+
26. The Madness of Lord Ian Mackenzie by Jennifer Ashley- B+
27. The Tsar’s Dwarf by Peter Fogtodal- B+
28. What Happens in London by Julia Quinn- A

I have already decided on my top three favorite books and unless another book comes along and blows my mind away, these three will stay at their current standing. Can you figure out which three?
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One very special book on this list hasn't been mentioned in any of my past books read posts. It is a not yet released mystery book and my number one favorite book for 2009.
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How does your list compare to mine? What are some of your favorite books of 2009 that I have failed to mention?
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Before I forget...



One book Mho Fho is anxious to read this year is Pride and Prejudice and Zombies by Seth Grahame-Smith. Our good friend Ana from The Book Smugglers sent it to us and recommended I give it a go even though I wasn't all gung ho on the idea. Darcy and Elizabeth fighting zombies? How could this work?
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Mho heard that it takes place in the English countryside and assumes there must be Regency sheep involved some how. *KB smacks head*
 

RWA's Redheaded Stepchild: Epublishing

  • Jun. 20th, 2009 at 5:06 PM

RWA's Redheaded Stepchild: Epublishing

 

The picture above I “borrowed” from Teddy Pig is a perfect visual about the WTF situation regarding RWA and their stance on epublishing

The majority of those that visit my blog here or follow me on Twitter know I am very involved in the Romance Genre community. I am a big supporter of everything the romance community promotes and eventually I would like to break into the world of publishing via romance. As an aspiring author, the majority of the stories I am working on has a romance slant to it.

Some feel that writing is a very solitary experience, but there are a great amount of support systems out there such as writing groups and a network of individuals who want to help you succeed. The Romance Writers of America was started in 1981 to serve as a nonprofit trade association for romance writers.

The mission of RWA is simple:
To advance the professional interests of career-focused romance writers through networking and advocacy. RWA works to support the efforts of its members to earn a living, to make a full-time career out of writing romance—or a part-time one that generously supplements his/her main income.

There are more than 10,000 romance writers and related industry professionals who are members. Some of these 10,000 members are not all published authors, but working towards their goal of becoming one. Last year I went to the annual RWA National conference where I was able to network and meet so many who love writing and the romance genre. This year I joined, mainly to have better access of events and information. Another reason was I would get a discount on this year’s conference and hotel room price. As you can see, I joined for various reasons.

I thought an organization, which was founded by a group to help both aspiring and accomplished authors, would welcome other avenues for a writer like myself to get published. The past few years RWA has come under fire because of their stance on the world of epublishing. For so long the only way for a writer to get published was with a mainstream print publishing house such as Penguin, Random House and Simon and Schuster among others. These are the NYC publishing houses that are the most desired by those, including yours truly.

But times are changing. There are other ways to accomplish your goals of getting published and making a living off your writing. This is where epublishing comes into play. But some still have a bias against epublishing as a whole and seem to only want to embrace tradition forms of publishing.

The president of RWA, Diane Pershing thinks that digital publishing is not the way to go and should not be embraced by RWA. Many authors who are members of RWA, as well as those who are not, have expressed displeasure about this.

Kensington author Jackie Barbosa has a perfect overview about this situation:

RWA made the decision this year not to allow any publisher that doesn’t pay a minimum advance (the threshhold being the $1,000 in advance/royalty required for entry into PAN, the organization’s Published Author Network) to take pitches or deliver session content at the National conference in July. These publishers are still welcome to send people to the conference (i.e., give RWA their money), but they are not permitted to actually disseminate information about what they have to offer in any meaningful or useful way.

Many other have responded such as Deidre Knight who is the founder of the Knight Agency and author of both mainstream print and ebooks. Earlier this week on ESPAN (Electronic and Small Press Authors’ Network) Deidre responds to Diane Pershing’s stance on epublishing and calls for change:

RWA’s current stance on e-books is that a publisher must offer at least a $1,000 advance in order to qualify for legitimacy. Never mind that many digital authors far exceed that amount in royalties, or sell more than 5,000 copies of print editions of their e-published titles. The problem with RWA’s simplistic criteria is that it ignores one crucial fact. Our industry is changing radically, with traditional publishers seeking innovative models for overhauling their distribution and content.

In part I believe Deidre is vocal about this matter because her very popular and amazingly written Butterfly Tattoo was sold to epublisher Samhain and not a more traditional mainstream press. (I have to get this out there, but I can’t help but wonder, if Deidre did not sell Butterfly Tattoo to an epub, would she be so vocal?) But regardless, her post brings up some good thoughts and questions that she wants answers to.

Diane Pershing responded to Deidre yesterday and her post on ESPAN was a bit of an, “open-mouth-insert foot” rebuttal.

Some highlights from the post you may find interesting and that made me shake my head:

Out of 400 workshop proposals this year, only two focused on digital publishing; one was deemed by the Workshop Committee to not be of the caliber needed, the other was by Deidre’s publisher, Samhain, which is not on the list of RWA Eligible Publishers (From RWA’s Policy and Procedure Manual, section 1.17. “Eligible Publisher” means a romance publisher that has verified to RWA in a form acceptable to RWA, that it: …..(3) provides advances of at least $1,000 for all books; and (4) pays all authors participating in an anthology an advance of at least $500).

KB: Who is this Workshop Committee who deemed that Samhain wasn’t the caliber needed? Samhain is one of the most successful epublisher out there! And I can’t wrap my head around why this $1,000 advance for a book is so important? Can someone explain this to me?

E-published authors are only one segment of RWA’s 10,000-member population. What of the huge majority that constitutes the rest of the membership? I stand by my original assertion that by governing in the interest of all its members and not the few, RWA is doing its fiduciary duty. …Each year members threaten to leave because they are displeased with something. Some do; most don’t. No organization can make everyone happy, but RWA goes on, no matter what.

KB: Oh well, you don’t like it, leave then. We have enough members to give us dues. So what if a few members leave? Take it of leave it! What if 90% of those 10,000 members left? Would RWA go on no matter what then?

The publishing industry is in a constant struggle to survive, authors’ numbers dip and rise and dip again; they are dropped, they are signed, and nothing is ever certain. This is why RWA must be a strong and loyal advocate for them. RWA believes it is crucial to stand firm in our conviction that an author has a right to guaranteed payment for her work.

KB: In between the lines written here, Pershing is saying that traditional ways of publishing, such as big named NY publishers are the way to go. Epublishing is the redheaded stepchild and in RWA’s eyes, it always will be.

I have taken some small excerpts from both Deidre and Diane’s stance on the epublishing issue. Everyone has their opinion and rightly so, but I can’t understand why an organization like RWA, who is supposed to be an advocate for writers, are so against other means for one to get published. As an author would you rather have a steady income with an epub or lucky enough to make ends me with a mainstream powerhouse NY publisher? Yay, you have the coveting NY Times bestseller label, but you barely have enough in an advance or sales to put food on the table. I am all for dreaming big and wishing for a six or seven figure book deal, but the world of epublishing allows you so much more. You can actually make a living publishing with an epublisher.

I am not sure now where I stand with RWA. They cannot make or break an author, nor do they have the power to go to a publisher and help an one join their roster of authors. What RWA has accomplished are ways for so many to come together and share ideas and make long lasting relationships. I will give them that at least.

RWA has been around for 28 years and it would be a shame if they vanished because they didn’t evolve and change with sign of the times. This is so very telling because for decades critics were telling the US car companies they better evolve or they will become like the dinosaurs, extinct. Those companies didn’t care or listen and look at them now.

This is the way I see it.

 

Falling Down the Black Hole With No Way Out

  • Jun. 13th, 2009 at 12:27 PM


Falling Down the Black Hole With No Way Out

 


 

When I started my blog I really didn’t know what the plan was. I wanted to talk about everything publishing that included books, authors. I enjoy discussing a wide range of topics that others would find interesting. I hoped to build a network, a community where people were more than welcome to discuss subjects and not feel ashamed to speak their mind.

The one thing I wasn’t sure about was how many details I would mention about my personal life. I have talked about some personal intimacies such as my sister’s wedding, the person I think I am and the steps I am trying to become a publisher author. But the past few weeks have been interesting to say the least and this is one of those times where I am going to share with you some unfortunate events that have swung my way.

I am usually an optimistic person but there comes a time when being this way is tested. Who knows if there is a higher being throwing a curve ball at me to see how I will react. Perhaps it is fate, or some unknown plan. Maybe shit just happens and you deal. In my case shit has happened and I am trying to deal.

My situation at work is a shaky one. Back in February of 2008 after the company I worked for laid off my whole department, I found a one-year position at a new company through an agency that staffs various positions there. When February 2009 rolled around I wasn’t sure what was going to happen. My supervisor and VP of my department wanted me on their staff but for reasons they couldn’t do that just yet. In part, there was a company wide hiring freeze. I was given a three-month extension and it was assumed that after those three months I would be an official staff member. The past few weeks have been incredibly busy where I have been making crazy overtime. This was a great sign because it proves that I am needed. This week I would find out about my future. I did find out and because of it I am now in a black hole.

What my VP did not know, nor I, was that after 52 weeks, you either are given a staff position, you find a position in another department or you find a job elsewhere. Because I was extended for three months I was pretty much screwed. I cannot be given a staff position in the current position I am in. Instead I was knocked down to part-time, 20 hours a week. I was told this on Thursday night and didn’t go into work yesterday. I will now work three days a week indefinitely until I find a new position or a whole new job.

I am sad, disappointed and angry because it was not communicated to me or my VP, who didn’t know. He should have investigated what would happen to me after I was extended for three months and that I would be cut in half. And because of some legal bull shit there is nothing I can do.

I feel like I am in a fog, or the black hole as I call it because this is all sudden. I was punished not because I didn’t do a good job or I was lazy. It was because no one cared to go out of their way to make sure I was protected and safe.

These past few weeks have been a bit stressful because of this job situation. Now because I am working less hours and have less money coming in, the most wonderful condo I was in the process of buying, which is in short sell, which means I buy it at a much lower price because the owner can’t make their mortgage payments, will have to be sacrificed. My next step towards becoming an adult will be pushed to the side.

This has all happened a week before my thirty-third birthday. Happy Birthday Kate. Still want a cake?

On top of all of this, I was asked to go to a twentieth high school reunion, a very big affair where I would wear a nice dress and look all girly. The night of the event, where I rushed home all excited to go on a nice date where the man would pick me up, we would dance and have fun and then he would return home, is a wishy washy asshat who an hour before the event bailed out on me. I was stood up.

Ever heard of the phrase, “It comes in three’s”? Indeed it came in three for me. First I get screwed over by yet another pathetic dating situation, second my job situation and third my sacrifice of my condo.

Too bad I am not a heroine in a cutesy contemporary or chick lit novel where I would laugh about everything and end up going through many funny trial and errors where I would finally come on top and have the perfect man by my side to help me through it all. If only it could be that easy.

For the first time in a very long time I wanted to stay in bed with the covers over my head and hide from everything. And it was a very scary thing because I almost didn’t want to read, write, blog or Twitter. And when those things don’t interest me, that means I am in a dark place. I do not like this dark place I am in.

But, all hope is not lost. You know I cannot end on a low point. What I am going through does suck but I am still very lucky. I do have the support of my co-workers. I have a loving family and friends who won’t turn their back on me. I am not destitute where I will be on the street eating out of the garbage can or just eating Ramen. Perhaps I will find a much better job? I can always channel these feelings into my writing. And there is still RWA Nationals to look forward to in a few weeks.

I do believe there is a light at the end of every tunnel, where one door slams in your face, another opens. Right now it is a bit hard to stay positive because even though my situation may not be as horrible as many others’ out there, it is still mine and I must work through all these unwanted feelings that are consuming me.

What is the next step? I wish I knew. If only there could be a manual I could follow. There is no manual to help me find my way out of this black hole. The only guide I have is myself and it will take me some time to find a way out.
 

The Dark Place I Find Myself In

  • Jun. 12th, 2009 at 4:57 PM

It is going to take me awhile to find who I am and where I belong. For now I am in a dark place.






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Unremarkable

  • May. 29th, 2009 at 10:58 PM



Tonight I felt alone
And nobody cared
I was unremarkable and invisible
Sometimes I wonder why do I go out of my way to belong when I know I never will?

Author Blurbs and Their Selling Power

  • May. 29th, 2009 at 5:18 PM


Author Blurbs and Their Selling Power

 

Does an endorsement from a well-known or best selling author make you buy a book just because they have a blurb on another’s author’s book?

Avon Romance Editor May Chen thinks so. The majority of readers who have commented on this at various blogs and other sites also feel the same. I would have to say I am in the minority on this subject because an author’s blurb has never made me buy a book. I used to choose my books first by the cover and then by the synopsis on the back of the book. And if I have an author I prefer over the other, I will go ahead and buy.

I really don’t mind seeing these author blurbs on covers and inside books because it is interesting to see what an author has read. There are two books I have just finished that were blurbed by well known authors and it makes me wonder how these books will sell based on this. These two books are by first time authors and already one has shot up the book chart. Could it be a because of Stephenie Meyer’s blurb?

The Young Adult book Wings by Aprilynne Pike from Harper Teen that came out this month is about a young teenage girl who learns that she is a fairy. I decided to read the book because the storyline looked interesting, and I have been on this big Young Adult kick lately. Wings is the number one Children’s Chapter Books on the New York Times Best Selling list. Right at the top center of the cover is a blurb from Stephenie Meyer that says:

“Wings is a remarkable debut.” – Stephenie Meyer, author of the Twilight Saga.


When I first read that blub I quickly came to the conclusion that because of Stephenie Wings would do very well. Natasha from Maw Books also thought the same thing because she posted on Twitter:

"Meyer's blurb & support of Pike for WINGS took her straight to #1. She can blurb for me anytime!"

From those five words by Meyer, I wondered if Wings was truly a remarkable debut. Wings is about Laurel who is fifteen-years-old and has been homeschooled all her life. Her parents finally decide to enroll her in high school. Laurel is not too keen on the idea of being in such a public place. She is bit of a loner who is afraid of fitting in. She can only eat certain foods and longs to be outside. But things go pretty well for her when she meets David, a friendly guy who enjoys science and wants to be Laurel’s friend. Soon there is a romance in the making with David. Then one morning Laurel wakes up and finds a bump on her back that turns in a flower! David is there to help Laurel figure out what she is. Poor Laurel is more plant than human and is actually a faerie. Along with David and a male faerie Tamani, she learns who she really is and why she was left on her parent’s doorsteps when she was a baby. Laurel’s father has also become sick and is dying. It looks like some nasty trolls are behind it because they want to own the land that belongs to Laurel’s family. This land is a gateway to the faerie land and these trolls must be stopped.

As for a debut, I would say Wings is a nice read. It is perfect for ages twelve and up and the budding romance between Laurel and David is sweet and tender. Laurel and David make a great team and the action and confrontation with the trolls isn’t too violent, except for one scene where Tamani, who is also a possible love interest for Laurel, defeats the trolls by twisting their heads off.

Is Wings remarkable? Perhaps not on the same level as Meyer’s Twilight series or Melissa Marr’s own faery series, but I can say that Aprilynne does have an engaging voice and has written a book teens and perhaps some adults will enjoy. I give Wings a B.

Wings is the case where an author blurb is almost on the money. Unfortunately there are some author blurbs I find to be misleading. So is the case of new Avon author Lavinia Kent with her June release, A Talent for Sin.

There is a blurb from Lisa Kleypas on the cover. The blurb says:

“I was captivated by every page.”- Lisa Kleypas. There is also an extended blurb on Lavinia’s website:

“I was captivated by every page of A Talent For Sin by Lavinia Kent, a masterfully written book that brims with style and vitality. Anyone who loves the romance genre should treat themselves to the spectacular work of Lavinia Kent—it is a sexy and emotional experience that will sweep you off your feet!”


When I read the synopsis for A Talent For Sin, I was hooked. It is about a thirty-one year old three times married widow who is having a luscious love affair with a man seven years younger than she is. I am all for the older woman/younger man love stories. And what makes this one even better is that that the younger man, Lord Peter St. Johns loves Lady Violet Carrington desperately that nothing else but marriage will do for him.

Violet doesn’t want to get married. She has been there three times and all these marriages were less than ideal. She also can’t have children and to marry a man like Peter who is younger and needs heirs is unacceptable. Violet has quite the reputation for taking lovers and living life by her own rules. But Peter won’t be denied and will have Violet as his wife.

Can we saw swoon? This is exactly the type of romance I want to read! I was riveted for the first one-hundred pages, but then the story quickly changed to one that made me go “huh?”. A Talent for Sin became clichéd. Violet has a brother who owes money to a nasty fellow. He was the reason Violet ended up marrying her much older first husband because of the debts he owed. Violet has a younger sister who is a twit and tries to seduce Peter. Violet keeps telling Peter to lay off the marriage proposals, but she still wants his body. Peter walks around moping because his love won’t marry him. But they still have some hot sex everywhere they can. Violet decides to sacrifice herself to save her sister from a horrible marriage because her brother is a dimwit with money and feels he is owed something. My last straw was when Violet decides the only way to save her family’s good name is for Peter to marry her twit of a sister! UGH.

I wonder if Lisa only read the first one-hundred pages like I did? If so, then I can see why she would be captivated and felt that A Talent For Sin is an emotional experience. Unfortunately the remaining two-hundred plus pages were a big let down. I give A Talent For Sin a C+.

With that in mind, I wonder if an author is given a book to read and blurb what happens if that author didn’t like the book. Do they try and find something positive to say? It looks like when a new author arrives on the scene, a blurb from an author the public adores can really help the new author's book sales.

How many of you buy books based on author blurbs? Was there ever a case where you bought a book because of it and the book wasn’t the one for you? How about the opposite?

 

Avon PR Fail?

  • May. 23rd, 2009 at 3:17 PM


Avon PR Fail?

By now you have probably heard about the big uproar in regards to the WTF interview Avon did with All About Romance.

The interview was conducted mainly with the Avon Romance Editor May Chen and VP/Executive Editor Lucia Macro.

I welcome you to read the interview yourself and come to your own assumptions. But I must highlight this part that has myself and I would say other on-line review sites and blogs steaming:

May Chen: In my opinion, the online world still doesn’t have much impact on sales as, anecdotally, I’ve seen books get horrible online reviews but have done well. As far as I know, we still don’t include online reviews on our books, but that can certainly change if we see them start making a difference. Right now, the best endorsements for us still seem to be from NYT bestselling authors and from major traditional print reviewers.

Lucia Macro: Do the consumers recognize the source of the quote? I'm not sure that the vast majority of readers recognize all the online sites. When checking their rankings I'm often surprised at how little traffic they really get. We are all very plugged in, but many casual readers are just picking up a book at their local Walmart and barely have time to watch tv, much less wrestle the computer away from their kids. So an author quote might carry more weight with them.

What would happen if and when the New York Times and other possible print publications such as USA Today disappear? How revelant will that New York Times Best Selling author label be, especially if that publication is no longer in exsitence?


"Among its pluses, the Times has managed to increase its print circulation revenue over the last couple of years, no easy feat these days. It boasts more than 830,000 print subscribers who have taken the paper for two or more years, so the presses are not turning off any time soon. But the downturn and general devaluation of advertising by the Web has wreaked havoc with the cost structure of all print publications, the Times included. Newspaper analyst Craig Huber of Barclays Capital believes the company's common stock will be trading for $1 a share within a year (it is currently around $7)."
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Hey, I am just a simple blogger who doesn't have anywhere near the amount of subscribers the New York Times has, but remember, it takes only one voice to be heard. From that one voice another one will hear and will tell another and so forth. Is that enough of an impact for you? That is why the on-line community such as bloggers and other review sites are the future.
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Did we not learn anything from Amazon Rank? In a few short hours on a Sunday in April the on-line community came together and started a fire storm the likes I have never seen.
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Imagine if the same could be in promoting authors and their books?

Good Enough

  • May. 23rd, 2009 at 3:15 PM

Writing consumes me...

Under your spell again.
I can't say no to you.
Crave my heart and it's bleeding in your hand.
I can't say no to you.

Shouldn't let you torture me so sweetly.
Now I can't let go of this dream.
I can't breathe but I feel...

Good enough,
I feel good enough for you.

Drink up sweet decadence.
I can't say no to you,
And I've completely lost myself, and I don't mind.
I can't say no to you.

Shouldn't let you conquer me completely.
Now I can't let go of this dream.
Can't believe that I feel...

Good enough,
I feel good enough.
It's been such a long time coming, but I feel good.

And I'm still waiting for the rain to fall.
Pour real life down on me.
'Cause I can't hold on to anything this good enough.
Am I good enough for you to love me too?

So take care what you ask of me,
'cause I can't say no.

- Evanescence

And Now I Smile

  • Apr. 27th, 2009 at 6:20 PM

Because I have been give something special...

The Value of a smile
by Anonymous


A smile cost nothing, but gives much.

It enriches those who receive,
without making poorer those who give.
It takes but a moment,
but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.

None is so rich or mighty that he can get along without it, and none is so poor but that he can be made rich by it.

A smile creates happiness in the home,
fosters good will in business,
and is the countersign of friendship.
It brings rest to the weary,
cheer to the discouraged,
sunshine to the sad,
and is nature's best antidote for trouble.

Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen,
for it is something that is of no value to anyone
until it is given away.

Some people are too tired to give you a smile.
Give them one of yours,
as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give

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STFU!

  • Apr. 23rd, 2009 at 6:23 PM




I feel better now.

If only you knew who you were so I could say it to your face

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Reviewer Beware! No Books For You!

  • Apr. 22nd, 2009 at 8:20 AM

Reviewer Beware! No Books For You!

I have a hypothetical question to those who review for both review sites and or blogs. What if you were told you would no longer be given any books because a certain publisher doesn’t like the way you review? You tend to be too honest with your reviews and the books you read are not recommended by you? Would you only then write positive happy- happy, joy-joy reviews or stick to your guns knowing you may be blackballed as a reviewer?

So is the case of Emmy who reviews. She states on her Live Journal that she cannot guarantee that her reviews will always be positive, but she will be honest. And because of her honesty, she was sent this email by who I assume is the one that sends her books to review on a certain review site:

I am going to highlight certain parts that raised my eyebrows:


"As I mentioned to you sometime ago, a number of authors have written me requesting that I do not send you their books to review since they didn't appreciate your style of reviewing. Recently the publishers have gotten in on the action and several of them have written within the past couple of weeks requesting that I give their books to other reviewers. Basically what they have said is that they will not give their books to a reviewer who trashes them. Their main objection is the tone of your reviews and I'm paraphrasing here - your reviews come across as extremely snarky, not just in the reviews themselves but in the comments following the reviews .... they don't have any issue with reviewers posting negative reviews of their books but they feel that your reviews are unprofessional. The bottom line is they are not prepared to offer their books to a reviewer who calls stories she doesn't like "craptastic" "suckage" and makes reference to gouging her eyes out, is disrespectful and cruel, especially following up on reviews she has posted of stories she doesn't like. Some of us have problems writing reviews on books that we don't like for whatever reason. As you know, I hate writing negative reviews but I do them more frequently now and I always have to find the right words to use and try to be helpful. So we have a problem with few options. Since I'm rapidly running out of books for you to review I could do what I did originally when you agreed to post your reviews here - I could cherry pick your reviews from your Live Journal and suggest the ones to be posted here. Obviously I can't select those from some publishers, which makes it difficult. Honestly, I'm at a loss here. I like you on a personal level, I enjoy our discussions, I think you're funny and we have fun together and I don't want this to affect our relationship. I don't know if you have any other suggestions of how we can work around this.You'll probably be angry when you receive this email but I have no option since basically I have been given ultimatums by several publishers who supply the books to be reviewed."
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This sounds a bit too much like blackmail to me. I can understand when an author or publisher is not too happy with a less than positive review, but blackmailing a reviewer into writing a positive review is wrong in so many ways. Everyone is entitled to their opinion about a book and not everyone is going to love every book they receive to review. Then there is a fine line between not liking a book and being snarky and mean. Sometimes I tend to be snarky especially with a book that makes me want to throw it against the wall. An author or publisher sending a book to be reviewed must realize that they take a chance.

As you all know, I review for multiple review sites and received books from publishers both mainstream print and electronic. I am grateful for the opportunity to read a person’s work. And perhaps I shouldn't complain because I get books for free. But the moment an author or publisher tells me that unless I review to their standards, that is when I say, “see ya.” I have integrity and that will not change just so I can get more freebies or become buddy-buddy with certain authors.

Some review sites are all about the positive and will never post a negative review. I review for some of these sites and when there comes a book I just cannot put a positive spin on, I say so and tell those powers that be to give it to someone who may enjoy the book I couldn’t.

I strive for a nice balance with the books I read. I tend to post more positive reviews than negative because I am all for promoting an author and their work. But sometimes a book doesn’t work for me and I must express why. It is hard and I tend to cringe, thinking that I will be on someone’s shit list. But just like life, things are not always happy flowers and rainbows.
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Is there a certain guideline a reviewer must stick to? What is consider too snarky? How professional should we be, especially if we are not getting paid?
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All I can say to those like Emmy who have their back against the wall is stick to your guns. There will always be a need for those who won’t go along with the crowd and have a difference of opinion.

Apr. 17th, 2009

  • 1:06 PM



I have been having some major paranoia lately:


I had visions, I was in them
I was looking into the mirror
To see a little bit clearer
The rottenness and evil in me

Fingertips have memories
And I can't forget the curves of your body
And when I feel a bit naughty
I run it up the flagpole and see

I want to publish scenes
And rage against machines

Paranoia, paranoia
Everybody's coming to get me
Just say you never met me
I'm running underground with the moles
Digging in holes

Hear the voices in my head, I swear to god it sounds like they're snoring
But if you're bored, then you're boring
The agony and the irony, they're killing me

Amazon, Why Have You Forsaken The Erotic?

Come Monday Amazon is going to have a world of woe on their doorstep.

If you haven't heard, Amazon is stripping all gay & lesbian fiction, and erotic fiction of their Amazon sales rankings.

Karen Scott has said it perfectly:
They’re basically saying that consumer sales don’t matter. They’re basically saying that if ten million people decided to buy an erotic or gay novel, it wouldn’t make a blind bit of difference. They must protect the public from themselves at all costs, whilst negatively impacting any author who writes gay or erotic fiction.

This is what happens when a company gets too big for its boots.

Some of those authors being affected that we know and love are:

Jaci Burton
Shannon Stacey
Maya Banks
Larissa Ione

They have reportedly lost their Amazon rankings on some of their books.

Update: New Post from Meta Writer who has listed various erotic and gay books that have been affected by Amazon's censoring decision

Mark R. Probst has reported this latest Amazon controversy on his Live Journal:

On Amazon.com two days ago, mysteriously, the sales rankings disappeared from two newly-released high profile gay romance books: “Transgressions” by Erastes and “False Colors” by Alex Beecroft. Everybody was perplexed. Was it a glitch of some sort? The very next day HUNDREDS of gay and lesbian books simultaneously lost their sales rankings, including my book “The Filly.” There was buzz, What’s going on? Does Amazon have some sort of campaign to suppress the visibility of gay books? Is it just a major glitch in the system? Many of us decided to write to Amazon questioning why our rankings had disappeared. Most received evasive replies from customer service reps not versed in what was happening. As I am a publisher and have an Amazon Advantage account through which I supply Amazon with my books, I had a special way to contact them. 24 hours later I had a response:

In consideration of our entire customer base, we exclude "adult" material from appearing in some searches and best seller lists. Since these lists are generated using sales ranks, adult materials must also be excluded from that feature.

Hence, if you have further questions, kindly write back to us.

Best regards,

Ashlyn D
Member Services

Amazon.com Advantage

The blogs across the internet are up in arms. Also some other excellent posts on this subject I recommend you visit:

Uncommon Jen "It's A Matter of Choice"
Smart Bitches, Trashy Books "Amazon Rank" **AMAZON RANK LINK**
Dear Author "Amazon Censors It's Rankings"
Meta Writer "Collection of Amazon's Censor Fail"

Amazon feels they have the right to become like Blockbuster and censor the more adult books and hide them regardless if they are a best seller or not. Making people unaware of a product, such as what they feel is too adult and hiding it is the biggest form of censoring out there. Why don't they just rip out all the pages of sex they feel is obscene before they ship it to the people who have purchased the book from them?

What does this mean for the sex toys that Amazon also sells? Will Amazon subtly hide these products along with the erotic fiction as well as with the gay and lesbian?

Why not speak up?
Contact Amazon Exec office e-mail - ecr@amazon.com or the customer service phone number at 1-800-201-7575.

Recession Heats Up Romance: The Snarky Version

A few days ago I posted a wonderful article from the New York Times about why romance novels are doing so well during the recession. Well, there was bound to be another article where the tone, shall we say, is less then satisfactory in its telling. In other words, the article was condescending and the author's voice was snotty. Also, she admits to not buying or reading the same books she mentions in the article.

Essayist and novelist Meghan Daum who lives in Los Angeles has written this article called "The Recession Heats Up Romance Novels"

Why don't I post some excerpts from her take on why romance novels are doing well in the recession and you decide if a romance reader like myself and others should be insulted.

- U.S. News & World Report... released its list of “10 Winners in the Recession,” But the most intriguing entry was the third item on U.S. News’ list: bodice-ripper novels. *WHY DO THEY KEEP CALLING ROMANCES BODICE RIPPERS? Why not call them, ripping off my bra because my nipples are hard and need to be sucked by the horny muscular eight pack abs hero novels?*

- It’s so easy to poke fun at contemporary romance novels that there’s really no sport in it. The plots, by definition, are formulaic; the prose manages to be at once overwrought and underdeveloped; the covers, well, they’re where that famous, flaxen-haired slab of manhood named Fabio got his start. *Shakes fist at Fabio. He is too blame for all these stereotypes!**

-It’s not exactly a surprise that the romance novel business would be pretty recession-proof; as bad as things get, a lot of people — OK, mostly women — can still afford a $5 paperback. It’s also no great mystery why stories of women being wooed by chiseled, robust millionaires. *I guess millionaires have great metabolism in world of romance. Usually they are too busy trying to seduce the heroine to exercise. Robust makes me think of hearty, just like those soup commercials where the NFL football players scarf down those robust, hearty soups after a game*

-If there’s anyone who’s predisposed to being snobby about this genre, it’s me. I wouldn’t buy a romance novel unless it was specific enough to my own escape fantasies to be called something like “Ralph Fiennes, Personal Assistant and Discreet Ghostwriter of Newspaper Columns. *So, Ms Daum just shot herself in the foot. SHE HASN'T READ A ROMANCE NOVEL and is writing about the topic? WTF lady? Hello, there is a thing called research!*
 
My response to Ms. Daum which I posted on Delaware Online:
 
Ms. Daum,
 

Can you please tell us the last romance novel you read? And if you haven't read one, how can you write an article like this without doing your research and not reading these books? How can you really have an opinion? That is like a movie reviewer not watching the movie they are reviewing and still writing a review on it.

I wonder what Samuel Richardson who wrote the earliest romance novel in 1740 called Pamela would say? How about Jane Austen who wrote the classic, Pride and Prejudice or Georgette Heyer who introduced historical romances in 1921?

Or what about those 64 million readers in the United States who bought what is considered the most popular genre in modern literature, comprising almost 55% of all paperback books sold in 2004?

What would the twenty-two percent of romance readers who identified themselves as male, and were split evenly between people who were married and those who were single would say? Or the forty-two percent of them who have at least a bachelor's degree?
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I could go on and on with the facts that make the romance genre the star of the publishing world. I really feel sorry for Ms. Daum. My world has become a brighter place because of reading these books that make me smile, sigh and always give me a happy ending.

 


I would gladly have my own bodice ripped open any day.


A Stranger Passes Out On the Sidewalk. What Would You Do?

Have you ever heard of ABC's "What Would You Do?" The show tests how people respond to emergencies or calls for help or any chance to simply do the right thing.

The program camped out unseen on Ferry Street in Newark, NJ and filmed passers-by as they blithely walked past a homeless man passed out on the sidewalk. The man was in fact an actor. 88 people in total did not stop!
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Only one person stopped to see if he was okay. Her name is Linda Hamilton and she is homeless. It seemed half of Newark -- 88 people actually -- walked by before someone took pity on the unconscious soul laid out on the sidewalk. That someone was Hamilton, who watched over him despite her own issues. She's diabetic, limps with a cane from two strokes and takes medication she can't afford for her battle against schizophrenia.


By the time I finished reading I was shocked. I had tears in my eyes. I was angry because how could so many people walk by a person in trouble?

But then this poor homeless woman does one act of kindness and because of it her life has changed for the better.

One act of unselfishness is all it takes.

So I ask. What would you do?

10 Winners in the Recession

  • Mar. 22nd, 2009 at 5:19 PM

10 Winners in the Recession

The US News and World Report has an interesting article about the recession and 10 industries that are doing pretty well under the circumstances.


If there are silver linings to the recession, they're not immediately apparent. After all, the national unemployment rate is 8.1 percent, the highest since 1983, and economists predict it will reach 9 percent by 2010. Gross domestic product is forecast to shrink more this year than at any other time since the Great Depression. And across the country, stores are closing, municipal budgets are tightening, and banks are begging for bailouts.

But a handful of industries, companies, and products are doing well--relatively speaking.

Number 3 on this list will make you smile even though they still use that same old stereotype label for romance novels:

1. Home Gardening: Research by Atlee Burpee, the world's biggest seed company, found that $50 of seeds and fertilizer can yield $1,250 worth of produce. Green thumbs agree: Sales at Burpee are expected to jump 25 percent in 2009, while veggie seed sales at Park Seed are up 20 percent this year from 2008.

2. Hollywood: The number of subscribers to Netflix, the DVD delivery service, climbed 26 percent in the fourth quarter from the same time last year. That helped put the company's revenue up 19 percent from the previous year. And according to industry researcher Media by Numbers, 2009's box office sales are tracking 16.5 percent higher than the year before.

3. Bodice Rippers: Harlequin, the world's biggest publisher of series romance, saw North American sales rise $3 million in 2008's fourth quarter from a year earlier. Other escapist literature also has done well: Although most book sales were flat or down in February 2009 from the year before, a spokesperson for the Borders book chain says that science fiction and fantasy were up—as were humor titles.

4. Condom Makers: Whether for at-home entertainment or to try to stave off the cost of a baby in trying times, condom sales rose 6 percent in January from the year before. "If people don't have the money to go out to a fancy dinner or are looking to cut back, Trojan gives them some real affordable ways to stay in and make some great memories together," Jim Daniels, Trojan's vice president of marketing, told USA Today.

5. Résumé Editing: Résumé writer Jerry Bills, who has worked on nearly 30,000 résumés since 1986, says his sales numbers are up 46 percent from last winter. "I'm way too busy to bother to even track it all," he says. "All I know is I don't even have a life anymore." One poll by the National Résumé Writers Association found that 54 percent of respondents had seen an increase in clients as economic conditions worsened.

6. Public Universities: The recession may be hurting public colleges' budgets, but it's boosting their appeal to students.

7. Chocolate: Hershey's, the largest North American chocolate manufacturer, increased earnings by 51.4 percent in the fourth quarter. That's partly because of cost cutting and ad campaigns, but it helped that sales rose 2.6 percent.

8. McDonald's: Waistlines won't thin along with wallets if sales figures at the nation's biggest fast-food chain are any indication. McDonald's same-store sales in the United States rose 6.8 percent in February 2009.

9. Career Development Websites: Traffic to job sites increased 20 percent in January 2009 from the year before, according to Nielsen Online.

10. At-Home Coffee Brews: The economy must be bad when even Starbucks, purveyor of $4 lattes, introduces its first value menu.

The Obsession With Twitter

  • Mar. 22nd, 2009 at 10:37 AM

The Obsession With Twitter

Each year there seems to be a new viral sensation. A few years ago it was My Space, then it was Facebook. 2009 seems to be the year of Twitter. By now you have probably heard of Twitter even if you don’t participate in it. I never thought I would be so involved with Twitter to the point I have become obsessed with it. Yes, I sadly admit that I have become a Twitter junkie. And once you join, don’t be surprised if you become one also.

I first heard about Twitter from Christine who has The Happily Ever After blog. She recommended that I join Twitter. At first I had no interest. I felt that using AIM and instant messaging people was the best way of communicating. But I was so mistaken. The moment I joined Twitter it became a life of its own. Now not a day goes by where I don’t check Twitter.

Think of this post as an instructional on Twitter and how to use it. Perhaps I can even bring you over to the zany and crazy world of Twitter. Call it the evil time suck or a procrastinator’s dream. Anyway you put it Twitter is the latest craze that has grown by leaps and bounds.

What is Twitter?
Twitter is a social networking and micro-blogging service that enables its users to send and read other users' updates known as tweets. Tweets are text-based posts of up to 140 bytes in length. Updates are displayed on the user's profile page and delivered to other users who have signed up to receive them. Senders can restrict delivery to those in their circle of friends. Users can send and receive updates via the Twitter website.

Twitter is like instant messenger but you are limited by the amount of information you can send. You have 140 spaces basically to get your message across. Say I post a “tweet” which is a message that says: “Happy Friday everyone!”. Those who “follow” me will see my tweet. And if I “follow” them, I will see their tweet to me in return. I am able to see a tweet, which is the message that is posted by anyone I am following, as well as any links to any websites and pictures they post. If I send them a tweet back, anyone who is following me will see my response and can comment back to me.

Anyone who tweets is a twitter. You can pick and choose who you follow and can block those you don’t want to follow you. Mainly I block spammers. Yes, even on Twitter there are spammers. You are also limited to the amount of tweets you post in an hour. During the Oscars I twitted non-stop for over three hours. In the final hour, I was tweeting too much and was not allowed to post anymore tweets because I had posted too many. Twitter made me sit out in the corner.

Twittering is a great way to post facts and information you find on the web, as well as linking a post on your blog. Since I joined twitter and posted links from my blog, 25% of the traffic coming to my blog is from Twitter. It is a great way to network and get your name out there. The more followers you have, the more popular you will grow in the Twitter Universe. As of now I have a little over 400 followers. I am only following about 100 twitters. The more you follow, the more tweets you will see on one page, which may become confusing.

If you are not following a person who is following you, you can always click on the @replies button the right hand side of the screen to see if anyone has replied to your various tweets.

Because your tweets are seen by all your followers, you can also send Direct Messages to a certain follower that you don’t want all your other followers to see. This is great if you have a personal question that you feel is too embarrassing for the public to see or a personal comment for a certain person.

You can also upload a picture as your twitter avatar and pick a certain background called wallpaper.

If you want to send a tweet to a specific person and don’t mind your followers seeing it, you put a @ before their name. An example is, say I want to ask my friend Susan a question. In the box under the question, What are you doing? I would type in:

@Susan what time is the movie tonight?

When Susan sees it, she would respond but clicking on my message. There is an arrow that she would click on and automatically @katiebabs would pop up:

@katiebabs *Susan would type in her message here*

Everything is pretty much free range on Twitter. There is really no censoring there. You can curse, talk about sex and drugs and link to naughty pictures. Of course if you are going to post about a drug deal that is going down at a certain time and place or that one night stand you had, you may want to rethink that.

What if you are interested in a certain subject being discussed on twitter? You click on Twit-ter Search. There you can type in a word. Usually twitters will put a # before the word. Lately because of the Dabwaha tournament, those of us involved in the tournament have been discussing it. If you type in a tweet and after it type in #dabwaha, you can search for any tweets that have been discussing dabwaha. All you have to do is go to Twitter Search and type in #dabwaha and Twitter will show you all the tweets about that subject and the twitter tweeting it.

On Friday there is something called #followfriday. You pick those twitters you think other twitters should follow.
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Example:
Best redhead twitter @katiebabs #followfriday

If you want to refresh your page, you click on Home.

Twitter Terminology:
Twitpic is a website that allows users to easily upload pictures and post them to their Twitter feed.
Twitterrific is an iPhone application and Twitter client that allows users to view and browse the Twitter website, and post tweets.
Tweetie is an iPhone application and Twitter client that allowing users to view Twitter and post their own tweets. It also allows the user to manage more than one Twitter account at the same time.
Dweet is a twitter who tweets while drunk. I have done that once or twice. O_O

Twitter is what you make of it. You can spend hours upon hours there to the point you have become a hermit in some room in front of your computer waiting for tweets. Some critics are saying the Twitter may eliminate the need for blogs in the future. There is even an author writing a book through Twitter!

And if you want to open multiple twitter accounts you can. You can have a secret identity. I knew it was bound to happen but Mho Fho my demon sheep even joined.

He is KingMhoFho



I am Katiebabs



And we welcome you to join us on Twitter, where millions have joined this community. Come on, you know you want to.

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